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Does you extended family know? (Parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) What was their reaction? So I’m actually 100% open about it now – My facebook profile picture alternates between me dressed as regular me, and me in a wig and makeup and looking spectacular, lol – Everyone knows, and for the most part either don’t care, or at the very least, don’t give me grief about it. My mum I think is having the hardest time dealing with it, but then I also think she’s having a hard time dealing with the fact I’m not a twelve year old […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Who knows?



Why do you actually feel the need/want to cross dress? When did it start? Why do I feel the need to do it? Honestly, I have no idea, and sometimes I wish I could just store it away somewhere and never have to deal with it again, because apart from the last year or so, it’s been a burden – something I’ve had to deal with as a problem, instead of some inherent part of who I am, like a leg or an arm. Believe me, I wish I had a better answer for you!! As for when it started, […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Why?



Liz, I stumbled upon your blog and the ask page. I am a mostly straight man attracted to M2F girls, and I have a first date with a crossdresser tonight. I was looking around online for dating tips, do’s and don’ts, but couldn’t find much. She seems rather eager for sex, which is fine. I will proceed with caution, but I’m wondering if I should show up with flowers and wine just as I might on a date with a GG. My instinct says yes be the same gentleman I am usually, but I was just looking for confirmation. Definitely, […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Dating a crossdresser



You said you were married. How did you bring it up with your wife? What was her reaction? Was it before/after you started dating/married? So my wife and I were friends online for a looooong time before we were ever romantically linked, and yeah, she knew at least 3 or 4 years beforehand. I guess a lot of things were made easier by the fact that she knew – I suppose she knew what she was getting into, lol – but I was definitely worried about it for a bit, and yeah, even now every so often I get worried […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Your wife



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It’s been a WHILE since I posted, well… anything. Sorry about that. But anyway, here’s some pics I took this weekend :) If there’s anything I’ve learned from this photoshoot, it’s… Photoshoots are hard I need MUCH better lighting solutions, because lamps with foil attached don’t really do it Posing is tougher than it looks I could REALLY do with a nikon prime lens with a wider angle than 35mm Anyway…

An actually-decent Photoshoot





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So, my job’s kind of cool inasmuch as they have lots of somewhat large parties where people dress up (You’ve probably noticed). Ever since the first one I dressed up at (which was scary, but a necessary step in my eventual coming out of the CD closet and having people see this as a NORMAL, NON-PERVERTED HUMAN ACTIVITY), it’s become somewhat expected that at each costume party type affair, I’ll be dressed up like a lady. And that’s fine. I’m happy to fill that role :D So, the theme of the Christmas party was “France”… Little bit of a broad […]

Christmas Party – En Francais!