One of the first questions we ask ourselves once we realise that we’re crossdressers/transvestites is “Why am I like this? Why am I a crossdresser?” Usually it’s not from a place of genuine curiosity, but a place of shame, or of misplaced guilt, or of anguish, because we’re suddenly assaulted by this reality of being different from everyone else – not by choice, but by circumstance, as if Fate has dealt us a shitty hand that we have no choice but to play. Well, ok. That’s one way to look at it. Another way to look at it is as […]

Crossdressing: Nature or Nurture?

Why do you actually feel the need/want to cross dress? When did it start? Why do I feel the need to do it? Honestly, I have no idea, and sometimes I wish I could just store it away somewhere and never have to deal with it again, because apart from the last year or so, it’s been a burden – something I’ve had to deal with as a problem, instead of some inherent part of who I am, like a leg or an arm. Believe me, I wish I had a better answer for you!! As for when it started, […]

Ask a Crossdresser: Why?