thoughts Archives - My Weekend Shoes https://www.myweekendshoes.com/tag/thoughts/ Crossdressing, etc. Fri, 22 May 2020 21:16:08 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/cropped-sitelogo-1-32x32.png thoughts Archives - My Weekend Shoes https://www.myweekendshoes.com/tag/thoughts/ 32 32 Girl Filters https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2020/05/girl-filters/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2020/05/girl-filters/#comments Fri, 22 May 2020 21:16:01 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=3950 This is going to be one of those posts where I suddenly realise that as I get older, I’m becoming more and more of a curmudgeon. So, before we begin in earnest, let’s see if we have the appropriate set of accoutrements… Kids on lawn: check. Nearby cloud to yell at: check. Boots I used […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2020/05/girl-filters/feed/ 10 The Mysterious Case Of The Disappearing Blogger https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2019/04/the-mysterious-case-of-the-disappearing-blogger/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2019/04/the-mysterious-case-of-the-disappearing-blogger/#comments Tue, 02 Apr 2019 00:04:34 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=3156 Back when I was but a wee lad of, let’s say…20, I spent a while searching around on the internet for blogs of crossdressers, and in particular people whose voices jived with my sensibilities. At the time I found, well, not many, which eventually made me want to add my own voice to that minuscule […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2019/04/the-mysterious-case-of-the-disappearing-blogger/feed/ 6 Crossdressing Goals https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/12/crossdressing-goals/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/12/crossdressing-goals/#comments Fri, 29 Dec 2017 18:08:53 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2778 The last few years, as part of my general plan to be better at certain things, I have a habit of setting a year-long goals for myself, with some monthly sub-goals. One of my goals was to write a blog post every month. So far this year, I’ve written nine – this will be number […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/12/crossdressing-goals/feed/ 6 Crossdressing and Stress https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/10/crossdressing-and-stress/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/10/crossdressing-and-stress/#comments Fri, 27 Oct 2017 15:55:17 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2698 I couldn’t tell you what triggers the need to dress. It’s a lot like… uh… herpes? Like it’s just bubbling under the surface for weeks and months everything’s going fine and then BAM IT IS TIME FOR SHOES AND MAKEUP OMG!!!11oneone etc. People have mentioned being triggered by stress, or dressing to relieve stress, but […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/10/crossdressing-and-stress/feed/ 7 The dark depths of your acquaintances https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/07/the-dark-depths-of-your-acquaintances/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/07/the-dark-depths-of-your-acquaintances/#comments Sun, 23 Jul 2017 16:54:08 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2686 As has been previously noted, I’m fairly open about my crossdressing. I don’t shy away from it at all any more – I post pictures to my personal Facebook account, I talk about it with friends, etc. But as much as I’ve grown confident in my ability to be authentic about who I am, it’s […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2017/07/the-dark-depths-of-your-acquaintances/feed/ 8 The road to hell is paved with good intentions. https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/11/the-road-to-hell-is-paved-with-good-intentions/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/11/the-road-to-hell-is-paved-with-good-intentions/#comments Sat, 19 Nov 2016 15:40:10 +0000 https://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2469 I don’t really know what to say about the election. People voted for whom they genuinely thought was the right candidate. A candidate that many people in non-majority communities worry will make them unsafe. I’m not here to push any political agenda, but I do know that those who voted for the President-elect voted for […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/11/the-road-to-hell-is-paved-with-good-intentions/feed/ 1 Crossdressing: Nature or Nurture? https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/02/nature-or-nurture/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/02/nature-or-nurture/#comments Sun, 21 Feb 2016 21:41:05 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2234 One of the first questions we ask ourselves once we realise that we’re crossdressers/transvestites is “Why am I like this? Why am I a crossdresser?” Usually it’s not from a place of genuine curiosity, but a place of shame, or of misplaced guilt, or of anguish, because we’re suddenly assaulted by this reality of being […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/02/nature-or-nurture/feed/ 2 An existential answer to “What is a Crossdresser?” https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/10/an-existential-answer-to-what-is-a-crossdresser/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/10/an-existential-answer-to-what-is-a-crossdresser/#comments Sat, 24 Oct 2015 21:11:29 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2142 This is probably one of the hardest posts I’ve had to write because I’ve desperately struggled with finding the right words to explain how I feel about this subject. Curiously enough, words, I’ve decided, are exactly the problem. (Word of warning, I’ve deliberately tried on this blog to not be too navel-gazing, but this post […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/10/an-existential-answer-to-what-is-a-crossdresser/feed/ 2 Why I don’t think passing is important https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/01/why-i-dont-think-passing-is-important/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/01/why-i-dont-think-passing-is-important/#comments Sat, 24 Jan 2015 20:32:16 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=529 This might seem controversial and counter-intuitive, but I truly believe that for lots of reasons, passing isn’t important. Bear with me. What do we want as crossdressers? I wonder sometimes, how deeply we examine this. Take a moment to consider what you want, or even why you crossdress. Really stop and think about it. Do […]

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]]> https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2015/01/why-i-dont-think-passing-is-important/feed/ 54 2014 in Review https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2014/12/2014-in-review/ https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2014/12/2014-in-review/#comments Fri, 26 Dec 2014 18:43:44 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=1656 You may or may not remember, but last year at around this time I made a post about how 2013 had gone, with some goals for 2014… Well, I guess it’s about time to review those goals and see how I did! But first up, here are some of my favourite pics from this year […]

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