Comments on: Ask a Crossdresser: Is just dressing enough?

By: Karley

Karley — Sun, 14 Sep 2025 17:37:41 +0000

Hi . Yeah, sometimes being “In the Closet” isn’t enough. I”m an old dog, so writing to someone sharing stories or role playing through writing a story together would be a tremendous outlet. I did that with another gurl and had a wonderful time. We were both old dogs and helped each other out that way. It was like a long distance chess game. When her time came, I was her little young and cute nurse. I never learned her true name but through the power of imagination, we shared a love together to two girls………..two women……………..I know it may seem crazy, but sometimes I sense her presence when I’m totally girlie. I loved being her girl.

Anyway, yeah, sometimes dressing may not be enough. The closest I can get would be to find a partner in creative writing. karley

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 21:44:44 +0000

In reply to Jim.

Thank you for reading!
I am definitely +1 on boudoir sittings :) If you haven’t already seen it, take a look at https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2019/12/a-boudoir-photoshoot/ :D

By: Jim

Jim — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 11:40:00 +0000

I couldn’t have said it better. I found your blog while doing a search for crossdressers who have had a boudoir sitting (which I would like your opinion on !!). Your statement “For me, dressing is basically where it ends” echoes my thoughts exactly.

THANK YOU for creating this website !!!

By: Sallee

Sallee — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 22:15:25 +0000

I’ll add my 2 cents. I have been at this longer than I want to admit. And I have no desire to cross over even to full time CDing. I have tried it for 3 or 4 days at a time and by the end of the long weekend I needed pants and to not shave for a few days. I think it would take all the fun out of it. Doing anything full time gets old. I have worked full time for many years and it is OLD! Even though I like my job been doing forever and when I get a day off I’ll take it.
Same with CDing after a few days the thrill is gone.I know it will come back so I am not worried. I only dress for fun.

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Tue, 10 Apr 2018 02:51:19 +0000

In reply to Shelia Davis. Doesn't really happen to me :) As for whether or not it happens when someone's full time, I have no idea! Awesome that your wife loves you either way :)

By: Shelia Davis

Shelia Davis — Tue, 03 Apr 2018 19:16:51 +0000

I don’t know where this comes from but my attached partner ( you know) gets excited about crossdressing. Does this happen to you and does it pass when your full time? I am very part time and wife knows and love me crossdressing. I can venture out but only in outer state cities.

By: Char'

Char' — Sat, 21 Jan 2017 20:19:40 +0000

What an inspiring journey you’ve had dear soul.
A story of courage, determination, release , acceptance and well, soooo much.
I too am on the journey…nuff said on that for now; lots of challenges and lots of powerful happiness as well. I would love to have some chat if you are open to that idea hehe

Mostly, Just a Thank You for sharing and thank you for being Exactly who you are!

Namaste’
Charee’

By: Robert Eres

Robert Eres — Fri, 04 Dec 2015 20:56:20 +0000

I have periods where I love to dress up. Sometimes call into work sick so I can shave my body, apply my makeup and dress up. Then, after a couple of weeks or so, I get tired of shaving. Mainly because my legs will get irritated if I shave everyday. Once in awhile, I will purge. Only to realize that I should not have purged, so I go out and buy new stuff. I generally don’t dress up during the winter, I grow my hair to keep me warm. During the warm months, lookout. I shave everything from head to toe. I like to wear light makeup. a cute tank top, short shorts and flip flops and get on my bicycle and go for a nice bike ride. I get alot of attention and cat calls from guys.