Comments on: Top 5 tips to be a happy crossdresser

By: Becoming Femme: My Evolution as a Crossdresser

Becoming Femme: My Evolution as a Crossdresser — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 08:18:13 +0000

[…] it’s better to stay happy by yourself rather than depending on someone else for your own […]

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Thu, 22 Nov 2018 14:18:00 +0000

In reply to Susan. Sounds like you're already doing it ^_^

By: Susan

Susan — Thu, 22 Nov 2018 12:52:15 +0000

I’m probably too old and too tall and too manly to do this whole “cross dressing” thing, but I just love the clothes! I love acting
feminine! I love wearing lingerie. Oh, well.

By: Satbir Redhu

Satbir Redhu — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 10:42:41 +0000

Crossdressing is my will and i am proud to a crossdresser. I openly accept myself as crossdresser. When i am at office i am a man but at my home i am always woman. Senior ladies in my neighboudhood always like me and encourage me to do so by telling me ‘U are not doing anything wrong’

By: drew

drew — Sat, 30 Sep 2017 00:40:59 +0000

thank you

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Mon, 12 Jun 2017 04:33:24 +0000

In reply to Leigh Ann.

Hi Leigh Ann!
One of the most supportive communities out there is the crossdressing subreddit at https://www.reddit.com/r/crossdressing :) Also, along with that there is the IRC chat that is generally quiet (we have jobs!) but is worth spending some time in (https://kiwiirc.com/client/irc.freenode.net/?nick=noob?#r.crossdressing) :)

By: Leigh Ann

Leigh Ann — Thu, 25 May 2017 15:19:04 +0000

Hi, I had a friend tell me about your blog. Like most cd’s, I started in my early teens, fought it tooth and nail. Nothing new there. I married at 25, I did not tell my wife until about 20yrs of marriage. Hardest thing I ever did, afraid of losing my best friend, hurting her, losing her faith in me as her husband, lover, companion. After about 5 years, she has stuck with me, and at times, even embrace it. Other times, she finds her self in a shell, and I believe ashamed. She has told me she wants somebody to talk to about it. She is the only one I have known, that I have told about it, no family, no close friends, just her. I have been trying to find wife’s of cross dressers that she can confide with. So she too can understand a bit better, and just laugh, cry, share our joy, and heart ache. Do you know of any such group, website. She dosent want to go to any local groups of fear of my secret ruining my career, as Richmond VA is one of the biggest smallest city’s in the US, and with our jobs, we know Very Many people. Please help if you can
Thank you, Leigh

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Sat, 25 Mar 2017 15:32:17 +0000

In reply to Tammy.

If your wife is comfortable with you going and spending time with, and being physical with, this other CD, then I think it’s fine.
If your wife is being kept in the dark, which is seems like she is, then no, I definitely cannot condone that behaviour!

I can’t tell you what to do – you need to follow your own moral compass. But ask yourself this: Is the possibility of destroying your marriage worth it, in the event that she finds out? Do you think you can live with the guilt of knowing you cheated on your wife?

By: Tammy

Tammy — Sat, 25 Mar 2017 15:16:20 +0000

Hi Liz I am a crossdresser and LOVE it. But I have a problem. I am married and she in NO WAY goes for this. She thinks it is sick and if I were to come out that would be it. I have been married for 40 years and frustrated. I dress when she is out. I am now at a point where I need to dress more and I am unhappy. I have been chatting with another CD for quite some time and she said I can come there and dress. I know there would be touching, kissing etc. . BUT I definitely said there would be no anal sex. And she is quite comfortable with this. I am this close to going. I have to get rid of this frustration and enjoy some life I love before I die. What do you think?

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Tue, 17 May 2016 19:23:35 +0000

In reply to Acsde.

Hi you made a similar comment recently – I still don’t know what you want from me! I answered already :) just wear it! If you’re looking for styling advice, I have no idea!