Comments on: Ask a Crossdresser: Does it mean you’re gay?

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Sat, 26 Mar 2022 01:42:04 +0000

In reply to Martin. People feel the way they feel - that's all

By: Martin

Martin — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 14:03:09 +0000

I love wearing bras, sussies and stckings and like to watch crossdresser porn. Get turned on watching them pulling and sucking cock but turn away when they start to ride. I’m confused? Any answers as to why I feel this way?

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Fri, 12 Feb 2016 15:53:56 +0000

In reply to Kajal. From the sounds of the sexual stuff he wants you to do, his crossdressing might be more sexual than related to identity, which is fine. That said, the fact that he is looking around for guys on Facebook is definitely a signal that he might be bi, or gay. If you don't want him to be looking for sex elsewhere, this is definitely something you should bring up with him, and if he's unwilling to stop... well that's a different discussion, too.

By: Kajal

Kajal — Fri, 12 Feb 2016 03:21:09 +0000

My boyfriend is a cross dresser. He always like to dress like a Cross dresser and asks me to F**K his ass with some sex toys. He searches for different gay people around the city on Facebook. Am completely confused about him now. Is he a gay?

By: MyWeekendShoes

MyWeekendShoes — Sun, 22 Jul 2012 02:19:16 +0000

In reply to Lori Lackowski.

It’s good that you don’t mind after finding out after so long!
He may not be gay – but he could be bi – being attracted to both men and women, and having repressed this for so long, and finding out that you’re accepting of his crossdressing, he’s finding an outlet.

That said, if his looking for other men bothers you, the only thing you can do is talk to him about it.
If you find it unacceptable, you need to tell him that. Talk to him. Explain why it upsets you. Maybe it’s just fantasy, and he’s not going to follow through. Maybe he wants to. These are all things you should talk to him about.

I’m sorry that you’re in this position :( Hopefully with some discussion, you’ll be able to better understand what he wants.

By: Lori Lackowski

Lori Lackowski — Sun, 22 Jul 2012 01:17:33 +0000

I do not mind after he finally told me after 10 yrs. of marriage, but the problem I`m having is that he is on the internet and wanting to suck off other men?
So does that mean he really wants men? He tells me he loves me and I also buy him clothes etc. but I do not understand why everyday he is on the computer to see if anyone answered his post?
I am so confused???
Lori