Comments on: Vacation Prep

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 17:17:35 +0000

In reply to Ramona Crossland. I've been out dressed in Vegas before! It was a lot of fun! I think I'm just reeling from the general miasma of anti-cis hate going around lately :/

By: Ramona Crossland

Ramona Crossland — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 13:33:49 +0000

Best of luck with your vacation. I’m like you in that i tend to over plan and over think stuff. As far as feeling safe to be out dressed in public, other than perhaps San Francisco and a few very TG friendly events Las Vegas is the perfect place to be out dressed. In a town full of Marvel superheroes and Elvis’s no one is going to pay a great deal of attention to a crossdresser. I can dress any time I choose at home as my wife knows about Ramona, but much like you, life tends to get in the way all too often. It’s all very, very frustrating I know.

By: Vicky

Vicky — Fri, 07 Apr 2023 10:56:59 +0000

Hey there ,
I hope you’re doing great ! Though it was an irrelevant topic to me , but i would suggest you to come out of all your fears , one life is all we have and we should live it to the fullest . I’m sure that everything goes well with the time . You need to convince yourself first in order to show it to the world of yours what you really are . And really looking forward to your blog on your vacation . Enjoy !
God bless .

By: Liz Summers

Liz Summers — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 22:44:06 +0000

In reply to Jade.

No chance of showing Jade to the family?
I didn’t end up writing this in the blog post, but I’m kind of feeling like I’m trapped in a bit of a hierarchy of prisons – like the first prison is when you’re not even able to dress. You know she’s in there, but she’s trapped inside the internal prison of your psyche. A level above that is the next prison – you allow yourself to dress up, but you can’t tell anyone of leave the house. Another prison of fear. I think right now I’m mostly trapped in the prison of “but how do I even find time to dress up?”. I was going to write a blogpost about how to schedule time for yourself to dress up, but I wasn’t even actually doing it, so it seemed disingenuous!

By: Jade

Jade — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 22:02:16 +0000

I know what you mean about the prison part. I thought my daughter was moving out. Jade would at least have the whole house for a few hours. But grandson stayed with us. So I am a prisoner in my own house locked behind a door to not allow people that can’t handle such a sight from seeing it.