Comments on: Male Attention (or “How To Make Me Not Like You”) https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/ Crossdressing, etc. Sun, 09 May 2021 00:57:26 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Daisy https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-181367 Sun, 09 May 2021 00:57:26 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-181367 It makes me upset how sexualized crossdressing is. Presumably, this has to do with the hypersexualization of women and femininity. I’ve shared similar experiences online where as soon as I shared a picture of myself dressed I was barraged by dick pics and sexual messages. Men seem to assume that because of the way I dress I’m attracted to them. This makes trying to find likeminded people hard because when I bring up that I’m a crossdresser most people’s expectations are that I’m looking for something sexual. I’m new to going out in public dressed. I’ve done it once and there weren’t any hiccups. No one really acknowledged me. I was talking to this girl recently who told me that she got catcalled simply wearing a sweatshirt. It’s a big issue for women, and that knowledge combined with my experiences online make me worried to continue going out. But I still plan on it.

]]> By: Sallee https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-121701 Tue, 31 Mar 2020 22:06:03 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-121701 How true I’m a guy too, most of the time, and while I think my dic is pretty special I don’t think ours really want to see it. Especially another CD who has their own to look at. Great column

]]> By: Liz Summers https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-94369 Sat, 29 Oct 2016 21:03:27 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-94369 In reply to sallee.

Yeah, pretty weird :/ It really puts into perspective the things that women have to deal with on a daily basis :(

]]> By: sallee https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-94367 Sat, 29 Oct 2016 16:30:39 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-94367 I got cat called the other day and it surprised the hell out of me. I wasn’t dressed provocatively, jeans blouse sandals no cleavage very everyday. I had been to the mall and several other places with no comment or look I think I was passing pretty well. So I’ll assume it was just a dick head. Found it very strange I would expect it with a short skirt or high heels but not the way I was dressed.
I guess it is something women just learn to put up with although it is not something I have ever done in male mode. Wierd

]]> By: Kevin https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-94296 Sun, 24 Jul 2016 00:47:23 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-94296 Thank you so much for this article. Like so many others that have replied to you in the past. I stumbled on your site, began reading and browsing, and couldn’t hardly put my computer down. Not wanting to bore you are anyone with my own history, I will keep it brief by saying that I am a crossdresser as well, have been indulging/fighting this part of me since my early teens. I still have not made it public and like this article have tried multiple times to find some people of like mind on internet forums and chatrooms only to be constantly faced with a barrage of sexual advances and lewd comments. I am 100% not interested in hookups or any kind of online sexual “adventure” if you will. It has been most discouraging.

So this past weekend, I decided one more time to type “crossdresser” into the search and began to mentally steel myself for the chaos that was about to ensue.

Then I found My Weekend Shoes and not to appear overly cheesy, it has been like reading my own thoughts. You have given me renewed hope that I will not have to go to my grave feeling like a freak of nature, but rather someday, be able to freely and comfortably express who I am in public and with people close to me other than my just my wife (she has known for many years and has always been encouraging and supportive).

Your time spent working on this blog and being strong enough to not only push the boundaries, but also discuss them is more beneficial to some of us than you can ever imagine. Please keep up the good work!!

]]> By: Mike https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2016/03/male-attention-or-how-to-make-me-not-like-you/#comment-94188 Mon, 18 Apr 2016 21:51:07 +0000 http://www.myweekendshoes.com/?p=2250#comment-94188 Hello. Just a note to tell you I really enjoy your website. I also crossdress occasionally but am no way passable as you are. Your very pretty if I can say that and not be out of line. Just to be able to go out in public must be an amazing feeling. Thanks for your time and I will continue reading your blogs. Thanks

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