It’s hard to say – he might still be feeling shame about it, in which case it’s going to be a little difficult to get him to own up to, if indeed he is crossdressing. It might be worth making some suggestions like daring him to wear your panties or something and see how that goes, and then possibly escalate it.

I suspect in dating a guy who likes to cross dress. It wouldn’t bother me if he felt this way. I’m just curious on how to know for sure I have grilled him about being gay but he says he’s not. My nities n panties have come up missing hmmmm what r some tell tell signs

I know how you feel! I’m not really into anime either, but I seriously considered getting into crossplay just so that it could be an outlet. I suspect that the popularity of crossplay is at least partly driven by people such as ourselves (though I have no hard evidence) !

Also, i also hate my face. I get told I’m handsome but all it does is make my insides itchier, since that’s the opposite side of the spectrum to what I want to hear sometimes..

Oh, for the record, you look adorable in that pic.

I think there’s probably more of us in this situation than we think! Hopefully we can become more open and more forthcoming with the struggles that we face on a daily basis. Part of the reason for this blog is to present us as we are – normal people with the same basic issues as other people… but with a few others tacked on!